Breaking up sucks! Don’t do it alone. var gaJsHost = (("https:" == document.location.protocol) ? "https://ssl." : "http://www."); document.write(unescape("%3Cscript src='" + gaJsHost + "google-analytics.com/ga.js' type='text/javascript'%3E%3C/script%3E")); try { var pageTracker = _gat._getTracker("UA-12721505-1"); pageTracker._trackPageview(); } catch(err) {}The Breakup BlogTumblr (3.0; @thebreakupblogger)http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/The Hardest Lesson Learned Consequences.   I pretty much avoided them for the first twenty years of my life.  As a...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/48662818432http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/48662818432Mon, 22 Apr 2013 19:16:36 -0700thebreakupbloggerbreakupsbreaking upthe breakup blogrelationshipsconsequencesacting like an assholeI Know This Is Breaking the Rules, But...I Know This Is Breaking the Rules, But...: If you want to keep reading my work, this is on a...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/35212406942http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/35212406942Wed, 07 Nov 2012 10:52:16 -0800raceculturepoliticsentertainmentOne to Get You Through the WeekendNew advice being handed out in my All Your Questions Answered section. Check it out…http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/34840754489http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/34840754489Fri, 02 Nov 2012 11:16:32 -0700thebreakupbloggerthe breakup blogbreakupsadvice columnbreaking uprelationshipsThe Doctor Will See You NowSince giving my ex anymore air time after this much time probably does not send the right message to...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/33847658672http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/33847658672Thu, 18 Oct 2012 12:23:05 -0700adviceask me anythingthe breakup blogthe breakupbloggerrelationshipsdatingsexbreaking upFAQsI get a lot of people asking me for advice. To these people I say: Are you kidding me? Did you read...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/30464128697http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/30464128697Wed, 29 Aug 2012 11:24:00 -0700breakupsbreaking uprelationshipsdatingfaqslovethe breakup blogthebreakupbloggerThe Most Absurd Breakup Letters of All TimeThe Most Absurd Breakup Letters of All Time: If you’re going to break-up, why not put it in...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/29831490850http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/29831490850Mon, 20 Aug 2012 08:47:06 -0700breakupsbreak-upsbreaking uprelationshipsthe breakup blogthebreakupbloggerFinding Friends in Random BarsSo I promised a certain stranger-turned-friend a post all about him and it’s about three weeks...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/29380570852http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/29380570852Mon, 13 Aug 2012 19:28:00 -0700breakupbloggerthe breakup blogbreakupsrelationshipsdatingmeeting strangers in barsDrunken Rants as the Sun RisesWhen we were growing up, we just instinctively pictured two of us. Life was tackled in pairs and...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/27252756594http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/27252756594Sun, 15 Jul 2012 03:06:00 -0700the breakup blogthe breakupbloggerbreakupsbreaking updatingsingledomone night standsWould you ever get back together with your ex? Are you over him?Am I over him? Yes. Am I over the memory of what we had/he gave me? Hell no.  Would I get back with...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/27200555692http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/27200555692Sat, 14 Jul 2012 10:02:00 -0700Summer=Weddings=Constant Reminders of my Eternal SingledomI logged onto Etsy today to find some artwork and there was a huge wedding banner telling me where I...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/27066984786http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/27066984786Thu, 12 Jul 2012 12:24:45 -0700wedding bluesthe breakup blogbreakupsbeing singlethe breakup bloggerSometimes words just don’t cut it. Thanks “K” for sharing your artwork! to the...Sometimes words just don’t cut it. Thanks “K” for sharing your artwork! to the...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21666412229http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21666412229Mon, 23 Apr 2012 14:04:00 -0700What should I do when my ex and I meet for closure. He broke up with me the day I left and I found out on his gmail that he had told his closest friend at the beginning of the relationship "I was extremely lonely, wanted sex and a girl and she seems good enough for it" Then he was saying how he wish he didn't start one with me because I seemed promiscuous and for no good reason. I gave him so much and he was so controlling and put me down always. He used me the whole time. I feel so awful/used.The question really should be, do you WANT to meet this guy for closure? Sometimes the best closure...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21666353703http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21666353703Mon, 23 Apr 2012 14:03:51 -0700I don't know how often you check this blog, but I just wanted to let you know that it's awesome. I just broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years and as much as my friends try there is really nothing they can say to make it any better. It's nice to read what you went through because it's a reminder that I'm not the only person in the world to ever have my heart broken and it won't kill me. So thanks a lot. I know this isn't a question, but I wanted to post anon.It’s true… friends don’t always have all the answers. Neither do strangers on the...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21666261055http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21666261055Mon, 23 Apr 2012 14:02:36 -0700I don't really have much to ask, but instead tell. Considering that i've been reading your blog - front to back - up until 1 am i figured I would congratulate you for your blog. I love your wit and honesty, the craziness, and even the weird shit. It was all very good. I related to many of your emotions and some of your situations but if it at all helps - I'm glad to know that there is someone all the on the other side of the coast that knows what its like. Keep it up girl!The weird shit is the best. Obviously. Thanks for writing!!http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21665999366http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21665999366Mon, 23 Apr 2012 13:58:00 -0700The Breakup Blog Goes New YorkEvery female writer armed with a little ambition and a lot of starry-eyed dreaminess, has a vision...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21665675855http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/21665675855Mon, 23 Apr 2012 13:54:27 -0700the breakupbloggerthe breakup blogrelationshipsbreakupsNew YorkThe Six Year CurseAlmost all of my close female friends, and I literally can say all except one, are in long-term,...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/19029472580http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/19029472580Fri, 09 Mar 2012 16:56:00 -0800long-term relationshipsthe breakup blogthebreakupbloggerdatingbreaking upbreakupsThe Breakup GuruI am now taking questions at The Breakup Blog’s Facebook page. Feel free to ask me anything,...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/17383498309http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/17383498309Fri, 10 Feb 2012 12:22:17 -0800the breakup blogthe breakup bloggerfacebookbreakup adviceBut you can write about it on your blog!!If I hear one more of my friends say that sentence as justification for making me do things I...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/16792295797http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/16792295797Mon, 30 Jan 2012 17:22:00 -0800breaking upbreakupsex-boyfriendsexesthe breakup blogthe breakup bloggerThe Problem with Girls... So I can’t speak for all girls. But I can speak for myself. And I can speak for most of the...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/16500631512http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/16500631512Wed, 25 Jan 2012 18:42:00 -0800thebreakupbloggerthe breakup blogbreakupsbreaking uprelationshipsFor all those who are wondering...What’s with all the new social media? Last week, I went to NY and met some amazing literary...http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/16474651286http://thebreakupblogger.tumblr.com/post/16474651286Wed, 25 Jan 2012 11:22:00 -0800the breakup blogbreakupsbreaking uprelationshipsfacebooktwitter